When You Are Sexually Obsessed With That One Part

INTIMACY
Tuesday, August 04, 2015
WHEN YOU ARE SEXUALLY OBSESSED WITH THAT ONE PART
When You Are Sexually Obsessed With That One Part

It is an established fact that heredity paves the way to mental and personality disorders, while childhood and early adolescence give them their full-blown form. Partialism is a tricky condition that we can add to the long list of human hardships. So what is partialism anyways and is it all bad? Can we turn it into something decent?

 

Partialism vs. fetishism

Partialism and fetishism are distinct due to the fact that the first exclusively targets specific parts of the human body, while the second targets both/either animate or inanimate objects. Like fetishism, sexual eroticism, stimulation, and/or gratification are difficult to impossible without the presence of the desired item. And the bigger it is… the better the sex is! Being subsets of paraphilia, they can cause significant distress in a fetishist’s personal, relational, and/or professional life.

 

Upper limb partialism

Single or multiple upper limb fetishism is fathomable for a hand that goes from the lap and moves uphill, an armpit that releases pheromones, an energetic arm, an accessorized forearm, a cuffed wrist, polished nail, slender finger, kissable palm, steadfast shoulder… all such instances can cause arousal. And since it is hard to believe that there is such a thing as an armpit fetishism, just know that it is very real and that axillism (armpit to penis contact) is gaining pace since it underpins unlubricated intercourse and reinforces unusual visual signals.

 

Lower limb partialism

Single or multiple lower limb fetishism is not new, for humankind has long coveted v-shaped legs, beefy thighs, bouncy hips, high-arched feet, beautifully sculpted knees, pronounced ankles, and all those charms that your heart desires. In fact, legophilia (leg partialism) and podophilia (foot partialism) are the most common forms of sexual fetishism for otherwise non-sexual body parts – superfine structures that are ravenously depicted in pornography such as footjobs, erotic massage, tickle torture, and foot worship.

 

Mazophilia or breast partialism

The image of cleavage enhanced with a push-up bra, and the disclosure of nipples or areolae, can shoot a fetishist’s atypical sexual fascination with breasts to the roof. For esthetic pleasure and sexual relief, mammary intercourse is performed as foreplay and as a non-penetrative sex act. While the breasts are squeezed around the penile shaft, they form a tight cleft that offers mutual stimulation; men identify it with the cleft between a lady’s buttocks, and women get to enjoy local orgasms.

 

Buttocks partialism

Pygophilia is a condition in which the rumps are the primary focus of sexual attention and without which climax is not achievable. Some anthropologists and socio-biologists describe it as a reversed Mazophilia. This highly eroticized niche of rear-entry intercourse is associated with erotic spanking/sadomasochistic corporal punishment, panty/denim fetishism, corsets/bustles fetishism, racial fetishism, and coprophilia. Moreover, the derriere is a fiercely fetishized body part due to its proximity to the genitals and the anus.

Belly/bellybutton partialism

For purposes other than fashion or self-expression, wearing bikinis and low-rise clothing, as well as displaying navel piercings or flashy sequins, aims to stir one’s inner lust and a partner’s sexuality. Fetishists may climax just by imagining the subject of interest. Just picture yourself kissing, sucking, fingering, or torturing that striking bellybutton lying against you… subjecting it to all sorts of hot and cold sensations, solid and liquid props.

 

Hair partialism

Trichophilia is a condition in which fetishists are sexually aroused by head hair, chest hair, armpit hair, facial hair, auxiliary hair, pubic hair, and/or animal fur. The abnormal excitement can arise from hair length, color, texture, and hairstyle. Porn sites cater to this population by hosting blonde/redhead porn, ponytail porn, alt porn, bald porn, and even shaving porn. Hair fetishists are happy to commit hair thefts, have intimate sex with plushies, or spend a fortune on sex workers with perfectly groomed pubic hair.

 

Ear partialism

Perhaps ear fetishism is one of the most selective paraphilias that differential psychology has ever seen. Macho imp-like ears, pinkish fairy-like ears, ornamented ears, tattooed ears, flushed ears, and cold ears… all these beauties drive fetishists insane, but not in the same way nor with the same intensity. Some may climax just by caressing pretty ears, nibbling their lobes, or licking their auricles… but all fetishists believe that these form a standard part of a heavy kissing session.

 

Though it seems comic or wacky, the danger of partialism lies in the fact that it replaces a whole person with a well-defined body part that has no intellect nor feelings, shapes love into a series of dysfunctional sex, and traps us in a vicious circle of materialism, fixation, addiction, hollowness, and impotence – both spiritual and physical. Treating partialism adds a layer of sensuality to the fetishists’ emotional and sexual life. It is not his or her fault if he or she was vulnerable to a morbid early imprinting at a tender age, but to submissively accept living in a toxic situation that lasts for an entire lifetime definitely is a big mistake.