6 Reasons Your Partner Turns Down Sex

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Tuesday, June 07, 2016
6 REASONS YOUR PARTNER TURNS DOWN SEX
6 Reasons Your Partner Turns Down Sex

Is your partner saying ‘No’ to your sex advances? You might be surprised how someone cannot be in the mood for sex or show no interest for sexual pleasure; you might even worry there’s something wrong. Here are six good explanations why your partner isn’t into getting busy with you tonight.

 

Stress at Work

Problems at work can kill your partner’s interest in sex. For men specially, sexual self-esteem is hooked to their financial success, so if your partner is having career problems, he’s probably not going to be in the mood for sex. The best thing to do is give it some time, offer if you can help, and make sure you don’t discuss money problems in bed; keep the bed strictly to sleep and to get intimate, nothing else.

 

Being Exhausted

When your partner turns you down, you might think there’s something wrong with you or with him, but the reason could be as simple as being too tired, lazy, and physically incapable of having sex! Lack of sleep also has a lot to do with sex drive. You better not take it so personally; it has nothing to do with you. Being worn out or even sleepy can stop men from having an erection, and can prevent women from achieving orgasm.

 

Problems in the Relationship

Too much fighting, arguing, or nagging can turn off your partner. Ups and downs in the relationship can create space between couples, and the lack of communication can result in loss of interest in sex. When there is too much stress in a relationship, making love becomes difficult. Your partner might seek sexual pleasure by watching porn or masturbating, instead of having sex with you - simply because it’s easier and much quicker to look at dirty women and use his hand than solving relationship troubles!

 

Being Nervous

If you are a new couple, your partner might be anxious about his performance. He might worry that he won’t be satisfactory and therefore might not be ready to have sex with you. Also, your past sexual experience might make them feel insecure, hence a turn off. Weight issues can make your partner self-conscious, steering him away from sex. Men can also be questioning their penis size. Having common problems, like erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, can make them turn down sex for fear of not being able to satisfy their partner. 

 

Depression 

If your partner has suddenly lost his/her sex drive in the past couple of weeks, it could be a sign of depression. Depression can also cause performance problems in men, which can make depression even worse. Look for other signs of depression such as lack of appetite, sleeping too much or too little, crankiness, etc. Sometimes, medications like antidepressants can also contribute to low sexual interest and erectile dysfunction in men.

 

Cheating

Finally, if your partner doesn’t show interest in sex anymore, it could be a sign of infidelity; he/she might be shifting his love away and satisfying his/her sexual needs elsewhere. A sudden decrease in sexual appetite could be a signal your partner is sexually interested in someone else and having an affair. Watch out for signs your partner is cheating like odd phone calls, texts, secret emails, and staying out late at night.

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