3 Stimulating Sex Facts That Will Surprise You
Once a cheater...always a cheater! That's what we all used to say and think. While getting cheated on can be devastating, it doesn't necessarily mean that your relationship needs to come to an end, according to many experts. Needless to say, it does depend on the type of person your sweetheart is... and what led him or her to cheat.
Plain and simple: fidelity is not always easy. However there are numerous reasons behind the cheating ways of many. Some individuals cheat due to sexual boredom....while others cheat because they are depressed, are infatuated with another, or are in some kind of denial. Then there are those who were simply born to cheat.
Ask yourself the following questions to figure out if your mate is a keeper:
1. Was the fling admitted or did they get caught in the act?
If your lover admits and confesses about their infidelity, it is a positive sign and proves they must feel regret. If they got caught and admit the truth – that also indicates remorse. However, if you caught them and they continue to deny it, you are in trouble.
2. Does your love have a history of cheating on others?
If this is the case...chances are you are going to recognize a pattern. Monogamy may be the last thing on their mind. They cannot change; you either accept an open kind of relationship or forget it.
3. Is your lover willing to work on themselves?
Your relationship may have a chance if your lover understands what life events led to the cheating (poor boundaries, low self esteem, feeling distance within the relationship, etc.) and wants to work on the issues at hand.