What if I told you that over 90 percent of men and women have made masturbation...aka solo sex... a part of their routine sex life? The days of negativity have long gone....and luckily so...because self pleasuring can really be a great thing to explore. Did you know that most people will experience their very first orgasm all on their own? Yup! If you are still somewhere in the 10% that haven't gotten on the bandwagon...here are some tips to get you started:
Think sexy and fantasize!
Let your imagination go wild! Thinking about someone other than your mate is not a bad thing. Most men and women admit to fantasizing about other people while have sex and masturbating. Go ahead...it's all innocent.
Don't stay quiet!
Most cries of passion during sex are actually for the sake of our partner's pleasure, not for our own. And we tend to do the opposite during solo sex; most of us have been conditioned to stay quiet while masturbating to avoid getting caught. Now that you're all grown up now, let your voice be heard and yell like you mean it.
Lube it up!
Lubricant can be a great companion when self pleasuring is in the works. You can also use warm water from the tap to get your genitals moist and ready to go. Before long, you will experience orgasmic pleasure throughout your entire body. Enjoy it!!