How about putting a little Christmas cheer into the boudoir this December? A few naughty gadgets and trinkets might just put an oomph into your step.... But how should you prepare your partner for your sneaky little ideas?
Start a conversation: Great sex starts with communication... duh! Have the sex talk before you pull out your glow in the dark sexual toys. Pay attention to your lover's reaction before you go wild and crazy...He or she might not be interested in getting kinky.
Be considerate: Only treat your lover to a sexy gift this year if they are on the same page as you. They might interpret your present as a subtle message that you are not satisfied in bed! Let your partner know that it is a gift you both can enjoy...
Start out small: Before you get all wild with whips and chains, prepare your lover for what lies ahead. Start with a back rub, then move on to some tasty lubricant...and then see how it goes.
Keep it private: It won't be funny or cute if your lover opens up his sexually kinky gift in front of friends and relatives. Keep your silly sex life to yourselves.