94% of the ladies admit it and 70% of the men agree: women make the most noise in the bedroom. If a sensual medley of moaning, groaning, and grunting is music to a man's ears, then with a smarter woman, sex should consequently be double the fun. Most recent UK-based polls reveal what these well equipped feminine lovers bring to the plate.
A Higher Level of "Emotional Intelligence"
A study conducted by researcher Tim Spector of King's College London, and published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, states that women with higher EQs have twice as many orgasms as women with lower EQs. Being the ability to pick up on other people’s feelings and react to them with a good sense of sensibility and awareness, Emotional Intelligence (EQ) grows to become the inner force that guides the actions of a sexually active woman. Thus, if she hears the desire in a man's voice saying: "Let’s see how many times you will come," "Gonna use you as my toy all night long," or "You will have to follow all my rules tonight and wait like a good girl," an emotionally intelligent woman would instinctively get a grasp of what to do.
A Combination of Exposure and Knowledge
"A woman with a greater Intelligence Quotient (IQ) is more likely to better communicate with her partner and help him understand what she finds pleasurable with greater clarity," says Dr Rajan Bhonsle, a consultant in sexual medicine. Her sense of objectivity, whereas she would not attribute the occasional rejection in the bedroom to an offensive lack of sexual interest, puts her partner's libido at ease. Her sexual exposure, being the result of research or that of experiencing with men and toys, allows her to have an idea about what is being done to her. Her excellent memory, insatiable curiosity, and sense of creativity allow her to pull out all the little tricks - a mind-set that makes the whole experience even more pleasant to both parties.
A Sexy Association of the Visual and Acoustic
One would doubt if there is a better sound than that of a woman coming again and again. That is where a smarter woman sets the bar a bit higher. This multi-orgasmic creature looks at sex as an art form - and don't we all know that in showbiz, visual effects and acoustics can make all the difference. Whatever sassy positions she finds herself driven into, the first thing she is concerned about is not to lie there. When in the mood for nice 'n dirty sex talk, her creative juices flow so naturally. She could charm with a: "You look so sexy when you do that," or with a "You animal," but instead, she would rather shout "No one has ever made my cardiovascular system get worked up as hard as you can," or scream "You radical!"
A Deeper Sense of Connection in Relationships
No need to ask the researchers for the answer as to why smarter women are better to be around. Their linguistic intelligence makes a man laugh, challenging him and engaging him in exciting conversations. Their spatial intelligence makes it relatively easy to become familiar with the male anatomy and get devilishly frisky around it. Hence, giving and receiving feedback makes the exciting conversations even better. Such an intimate exchange will definitely lead to a deeper bond where the sexual connection equals in intensity and harmony alike that of an intellectual one. Consequently, better sex will follow - a venture where the most impossible orgasms are possible, tickling the skin, mind, or breast.
So far, it has been established that human intelligence, both emotional and intellectual, has a direct impact on women's sexual functioning by influencing their ability to speak their sexual expectations and desires to their partner. However, a number of researchers considered the most recent studies insufficient for they did not test other variables such as the woman's emotions and expectations, her private anatomy, the stress factor, and the relationship's problems. Nevertheless, the studies are leading to new ways of counseling. That's good news since 30% of the female population has difficulty attaining "heavenly bliss" at some point in their lifetime. There is even greater news for the ladies: sexual intelligence can be enhanced.