“Sex relieves tension, love causes it.” Woody Allen
‘Well said’ Woody, but let’s get down to the bottom line: Is makeup sex a good idea or not?
Many would agree that reconciling in the bedroom can make the entire experience worthwhile. For reasons left up to the universe, having wild and lively sex after an argument can be the road to a homerun. However, some do believe that it is simply dysfunctional to do so.
Men… If you and your partner are up for some hardcore makeup sex in the near future, keep these tips in mind:
Men: The borderline between angry frustration and sexual excitement can be quite thin. Your woman may not want you to touch her just yet. Take her face gently into your hands and give her the most sensual kiss you have ever given. Keep your hearts pumping with devilish excitement.
Men: Use the aggressiveness of your argument to your advantage. This might take practice, however bring out the sexual animal in you by gently (but firmly) grabbing her by the hair and showing her you mean business.
Men: Remember that sex is not going to solve all of your problems. It will not heal your hurting relationship in the end. If both of you are mutually interested in having sex, your experience can have a positive effect on your relationship. Your head will be clearer in the end.
Men: Converse after having makeup sex. Your minds are most likely calm and clear at this point. Use it to your advantage and clear the air. Don’t go to bed… that is to sleep… angry.